Trapped by Assumptions

Most of us live within a bubble—a self-imposed, imaginary boundary defined by our assumptions. These walls are built from preconceptions we accept without direct evidence, and they can confine us to a narrow way of thinking. This subjective world shapes our activities, thoughts, and decisions, and for many, this bubble remains relatively constant from childhood [1]. However, for some, it is constantly being popped.

Decision-making is significantly impacted by assumptions. When individuals base their decisions on unexamined hearsay, they risk making ill-informed or misguided choices. This vulnerability can be exploited by manipulators who use tweaked information to control others without their awareness. Assumptions about people’s intentions or characteristics can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. Using snap judgments based on stereotypes or social biases not only misjudges others but also reinforces systemic inequalities.

Beliefs about status or societal expectations might lead individuals to overlook fulfilling career alternatives. Similarly, in personal pursuits, self-limiting beliefs about our capabilities can prevent us from exploring new interests or achieving our goals. To truly grow, we need to be willing to question these boundaries.

The challenge is that questioning our own assumptions isn’t easy. It requires self-reflection and critical thinking skills that many people struggle with—often sticking to entrenched beliefs until the end [2].

Notes:

[1] For many, beliefs are retained throughout their lifetime, be it religion, career ambition, cultural values, relationship goals, etc. These are often constructed from childhood and carried through adulthood. Many navigate their lives adhering to these assumed paths and values, rarely questioning them.

[2] Elon Musk aptly puts it, “Most people don’t change their minds; they just die.”

August 2024 - Rishav Dhungel